June 8, 2012Keeping Steam and Sizzle in the Bedroom
Hi Dr. Laura!
My husband is easy. He's pretty much in the mood all the time. Whenever, wherever... we have sex at least once a day, sometimes two or three (and we're in our 40's). But because women are different, I found that it's good to always stay "prepared"... One way is, I NEVER go to bed with clothes on. The second is that I have a few things I rotate inside of my head about my husband throughout the day. Things I love about him, things that attracted me to him in the first place. I focus fully on one or two things and before I know it, I'm ready to go. And yes, even with a headache.
My mother taught me to never say no to my husband, but I realize that there is a difference between just being a willing participant and being right there in the moment with him. It's my very favorite part of the life we share, and I think it's his, too.
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