June 21, 2016
My Children Need Me, At ALL Stages Of Life


Dear Dr. Laura:

There was never any question in my mind that I would get a college degree and be a stay-at-home mom.  My education molded me into adulthood and solidified my values.  Being a full-time mother is an opportunity to instill values, and to love and nurture little ones who will hopefully contribute to society.  My children needed me at all stages of their lives, from infancy through to high school and beyond.  

When my oldest child was a toddler, we drove past a fenced-in yard and large building with a playground.  He asked what it was, and I explained it was a daycare center where kids went while their parents were at work.  He got very solemn and thoughtful and then said to me "Mom, I don't want to do that daycare thing.  I want to be home with you."  I assured him I would always be home with him.

My college-age daughter calls me frequently from her dorm, telling me all about her week.  One of her roommates noted that she never confided to them any of her struggles.  Her answer?  "I just tell my mom everything and then I'm fine."  I can't think of a better compliment than that!

Shelby




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