August 22, 2011
Who Falls in Love Faster?

This is in response to your recent opening comments about men or women falling in love faster than the other. I just had to let you know my experience.

Years ago when I was single I knew what men wanted, a sweet, sexy good girl! I never listened to you back then but I just knew that's what any man would want. I never drank, or did drugs. I worked hard and lived a pretty clean cut life; my home was usually spotless and I worked out and ate healthy so I looked pretty good as well. Needless to say I was pursued by just about any gentleman I would come across. I would date them and after a couple dates I would realize this is not the man I wanted to father my children, so I would move on....they would not. Dr Laura, I had so many suitors who said I was "the one" all I had to do was choose wisely.

I am happy to say that I did, and now at 37, I am married to a hunk who would walk through fire for me and we have 4 beautiful daughters. To those who think it's because I must have had a great upbringing, you are wrong. My dad was totally absent and my mother worked and was terribly abusive verbally. By the time I graduated high school she had me convinced no one would ever want me. I guess I proved her wrong, huh?

So in conclusion, in my experience all the men fell faster, probably because I gave them something to fall for.....

Elizabeth

Posted by Staff at 12:00 AM