Hi Dr. Laura,
As you say, "choose wisely-treat kindly" are the best words you can ever say or do. I have to say treat kindly is the best even better than sex. And as to how your body looks? It is not about the body or sex, it is about you and the heart. Isn't that why you married him anyway - not looks or sex? Don't get me wrong, you have to be attracted to each other, but you also have to have a heart and be treated kindly. In today's sad world, it is all about the looks and who is more beautiful. Well that is crap and unacceptable. Like I said, it comes down to the heart and being treated kindly.
Thank you Dr. Laura for everything you do and making a difference not in only my life but the whole world. Keep doing what you are doing. God Bless you always!