Dear Dr. Laura-
I called you today (Monday 3/19) and asked your opinion on whether or not I should take a job to "save" our family inspite of the fact my artist husband was greatly against it. You recommended I focus my efforts on helping my husband market differently instead of taking a job that would take me out of the home and undermine my marriage. I so appreciate your advice. I knew what I needed to do before I called you, but I needed to hear it from someone else - sometimes it's hard to think logically when you're so emotionally conflicted.
After I spoke with you, I gathered my thoughts for a couple of hours, and then went to see my husband in his studio. I told him I wanted to talk with him about my potential job offer, and he immediately got defensive and wouldn't let me talk. I told him I had called you, and he immediately started listening (he's a big fan). I told him I loved him and I would continue to help him as much as I could in his business but I would no longer complain about it.
A few hours later, I came home from taking my son to an after school class, and there were flowers waiting for me on the kitchen counter. He told me he loved me and was so glad we are partners in everything.
Thank you for your advice in this situation, and in all others. As I listen to your podcast and practice what you preach, I have become a stronger woman, a more courageous person, a better mother, and a more loving wife.
Thank you for your courage to say what needs to be said even when it is unpopular. You are one of my heroes!
Have a wonderful day,
Megan
