I was listening when were talking about your son dropping a bottle of some drink because it was wet. Your husband did not want to give him another one because he "didn't take care of the one he had".
I remember a time when I was very small and at my grandmother's house. I dropped a dish of ice cream. When my mother asked for more, my grandmother told her, that I dropped mine, so I couldn't have more.
I'm 61 years old Dr. Laura, and I still remember how it made me feel. I agree with you. How you talk to your kids will have life long consequences.
Thank you for all you do!