...I started reading your books and listening to you shortly after our marriage. I took every word to heart and loved every call I heard. Here's what I've learned from you... More >>

I've occasionally heard young women call you to ask if they should move with their boyfriends to far away locations. You usually say, not unless you're married! All that advice you give to women is the TRUTH, and I want your listeners to hear my story... More >>

Do you doubt if you're good enough if you make an honest mistake? If yes, then you are likely a perfectionist. The thing is being a perfectionist doesn't guarantee that you will always get things done better than anyone else. Instead, it can sink you into endless self-doubt, disappointment, and inevitable stress each time you fail to meet up... More >>

I am a stay-at-home mom to twin daughters. I take them to a playgroup once a week in our small town. There is one little girl there who is 3 years old, the same age as my twins. Her parents are divorced, dad lives far away, and her mom has a full-time career... More >>

It is not always possible to pause with yourself before engaging in conflict with your partner. But if you can create the pause, it will serve you greatly to do your own inner work before entering into the dialogue with your partner... More >>

When my children were participating in sports, even though they usually loved the activity, there were times when they'd ask to quit... More >>

I want to thank you for a conversation I had with you in my head that was very helpful! After hearing you talk to a woman about dressing up for her husband, I thought about my lifelong insecurities about how to dress and act sexy, since I've been a lifelong tomboy... More >>

I have been happily married for 12 years and have an 8-year-old daughter. I quit work in the professional world at the beginning of the year because I knew I couldn't have it all... More >>

When I was 10 years old and my brother was 13, we were each given twenty dollars a week for an allowance, but there were stipulations attached... More >>

I am the Volunteer Coordinator for a hospice organization, and we recently had a patient who worried about his wife and how she would make it after he passed... More >>