I've been listening to you for over five years. I'm 54 now, and when I was 19, I married my first husband. He ran away with another woman and we divorced. I've learned from you now not to marry when you're so young... More >>

Fifteen years ago, you saved my marriage. I was a mother of five, and my husband was a busy lawyer for a big company. He worked twelve hour days and always needed to be available. I worked part-time as a Registered Nurse, working late shifts and weekends. I was crabby, exhausted and not nice to my husband. I thought our marriage might end... More >>

I bought 'The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands' for my wife when it was hot off the presses back in 2003. I read it first because I didn't want to lay it on the nightstand and risk getting in trouble... More >>

...This approach is so different - because it empowers us to make transformations in our relationships by controlling the only thing we can - ourselves. Rather than waiting idly for our partner to one day change (wishful thinking) we create the change that we want to see... More >>

I had been trying to figure out what in the world compelled me to act like so nasty to my husband of almost 19 years. I went into a different room, sat down, and really turned the tables... More >>

My husband used to have a small Cessna airplane, and he loved to fly it. He is a private pilot, but only as a hobby, and for several years, we kept that plane so we could 'hop' the distance between our town and the next big city when we wanted to go shopping... More >>

Feeling lovey-dovey and horny is not the same thing as commitment. Here are 5 signs that the guy you're dating has no intention of marrying you... More >>

...After our third child was born, we fell into a routine where we were two ships passing, discussing kid-related topics and attributing our lack of energy to do more than that to our not having slept in seven years! We were sinking... More >>

One day I walked into the master bedroom after my husband had left for work and found that he had made the bed. I had meant to text him to thank him, but it kept slipping my mind... More >>

I picked up 'The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands' for a friend, and then I started reading it first! I immediately saw how I had inadvertently discounted my amazing and patient husband... More >>